"We need to talk," my wife says. I sit nervously on the edge of a chair.
She continues: "I want to hear your views on the comparative merits of
the warp propulsion systems of the Millennium Falcon and the Starship
Enterprise in tedious detail." For ten seconds, I am the happiest man
who ever lived. And then I wake up.
Today, boys and girls, we
discuss relationships. Rule one says that marital relationships are
complex but must be taken seriously.
A man who suspected his wife
of cheating put a spell on her, according to a recent news link sent by
a reader. When she met her secret lover for a tryst in a minibus, the
magic caused them to become physically stuck together. The lover,
speaking from inside the vehicle in Tharaka-Nithi County, Kenya, pleaded
for release: "I will give you all my goats." The husband uttered the
words that broke the spell, the Nairobian newspaper reported.
spells and goats are too dramatic for your own relationship, try
Britain, which goes to the opposite extreme: it is considered a serious
criminal offence to speak impolitely, even during extreme marital
discord. One man filed for divorce 15 years after his wife stopped
talking to him entirely, communicating only in phrases scribbled on
little yellow post-it notes, the New York Times reported.
mentioned this story in the office and several men went quiet,
apparently finding this prospect quite attractive. Of course the present
writer was not among them, being married to the most amazing woman in
the world, and I would write that even if she wasn't dictating this
sentence to me.
The second category is work relationships, which
can be painful to unravel. So I admire a woman in China who recently
decided to seek adventure by simply asking for an official I Resign Form
(that's how it's done in that country) and writing: "Because the world
is big." The term became a viral catchphrase. You can answer any "why"
question with it and sound deep and enigmatic. "Why do you take sugar in
your coffee?" "Because the world is big." "Why are you so ****ing
annoying?" "Because the world is big," and so on.
category of relationships are casual ones - but they too can change your
life, I learned from another recent news story. A man in the US state
of Oregon was a regular consumer of Domino's pizza. When he failed to
order for days, staff went to his house, got no answer and called
police, who broke in and found him in need of medical help. Commentators
reported the irony that fast food addiction saved his life. No one
mentioned that it may have nearly killed him in the first place.
reminded me of a press release I once got from the Chinese government
saying that it had rebuilt the wrecked historical temples of Tibet,
forgetting to mention that they were the ones who had smashed them up.
going back to that New York Times piece on divorce, one Briton applied
for divorce on the ground that his wife regularly served tuna casserole
for dinner. The judge approved it. Why? Because the world is big.
(Nury Vittachi is an Asia-based frequent traveller. Send ideas and comments via his Facebook page)
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